Make-up sex reinforces patterns of arguing by making the reward for fights something desirable: amazingly intense sex. This physical way of “resolving” a disagreement doesn't resolve anything. After this spurt of passion has subsided, couples feel more lonely than ever, because the old feelings return and neither partner feels heard or understood. Having sex for the wrong reasons sabotages real intimacy. Facing up to your problems and dealing with them constructively deepens intimacy in all areas of your relationship and keeps problems from snowballing. Honest communication is important, so take the time to understand your own feelings in order to better share them with your partner instead of covering up the issues with sex.Read the entire article here: Make-Up Sex Hurts: Why and How to Avoid It
Avoiding Make-Up Sex