Last-ditch marital counseling seldom has the desired affect. Once the “d” word is out there, it is difficult to overcome. However, if this is the position in which you find yourself, you can improve the odds by 1) telling your spouse you don’t want a divorce and that you want to work on the marriage, 2) postpone your court date, 3) both be willing to examine yourself and to three things that make it difficult for your spouse to love you, 4) write down five reasons you think your marriage can survive, and 5) seek therapy on your own and then choose another couples counselor to see with your spouse.Read the entire article here: Don’t Wait for an Impending Divorce Date for Couples Counseling