Does the idea of "relationship secrets" seem a little strange to you? Great communication, even of very intimate sexual fantasies, is often said to lead to a great relationship. However, revealing certain secrets may turn out to have adverse effects. Psychologist and author of Face It, Vivian Diller, lists secrets many people have with suggestions about whether or not you should divulge them. For example, Diller writes that debt is one secret you should definitely not keep from your partner, but that minor infractions, like shoplifting or fist fighting are fine to keep to yourself. You’ve learned from, and won’t repeat, those mistakes, and they aren’t a part of your relationship.Read the entire article here: Relationship Secrets: To Tell or Not To Tell?