When the flames of desire start burning low, many couples try to rekindle the fires by taking fancy vacations or buying expensive Valentine’s Day or anniversary gifts. Instead of these short-term, regularly-scheduled “fixes,” therapist Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. recommends taking the long-term route by changing your attitude toward your spouse. Be more curious about him or her! Dr. Hendrix says he’s come across spouses who, after attending one of his workshops, say “I never know that about him/her!” He's even heard it from couples who’ve been married for decades. Really listening to your partner provides the affirmation that we are all looking for and can remind you of why this person is so important.Read the entire article here: Curiosity Killed the Cat, But It Can Save Your Marriage